County Weddings are now full-fledged, weekend-long experiences. While the ceremony may be the main event, couples looking for ways to keep guests entertained across the weekend turn to The Hayloft Dancehall.

A mainstay of County nightlife since the 1970s, the iconic red barn in Cherry Valley is where people gather for live music, dancing, and late-night celebrations.

And now it’s a key part of the County’s gathering reputation as destination for weddings.

The sign on the front door, “The County’s Best Place for Good Times,” has been there for 50 years. And owner Ben Paley believes it still holds true.

“Maybe what that looks like has changed a little bit. But, in general, we are the County’s party and nightlife spot.”

That expertise isn’t accidental. It is embedded in the Hayloft’s identity. 

In the 1970s, country music was the draw. Now, every Saturday night, visitors can expect some form of live entertainment. A drag or burlesque performance often gives way to a dance party with a DJ or a live band. The format makes The Hayloft a popular stop for tourists, locals, and wedding groups looking to extend the celebration into the night.

Wedding Venue

For those willing to take a more hands-on approach, The Hayloft is one of the more affordable wedding options in the County. It offers bar service, the sound system, venue management, and technical support, while couples bring in their own catering, florals, décor, and rentals.

“If you want a DIY wedding that’s probably going to be cheaper than almost any other place in the County, we are an amazing option,” Mr. Paley says.

The Hayloft isn’t trying to compete on manicured gardens or elaborate ceremony spaces. Its specialty is the party: live music and a packed dance floor.

“We throw a party every week,” Paley says. “We’re pros at it.”

The team can help create the kind of reception where guests are dancing before the dinner plates have been cleared.

Since taking ownership, Mr. Paley and his team have incorporated 2SLGBTQI+ focused entertainment into the venue’s regular programming. The shift that reflects not only changes at The Hayloft, but in the County.

Like many businesses that openly embrace queer programming in rural communities, The Hayloft has faced criticism. But Mr. Paley says the response from the broader community continues to outweigh the negativity.

“I know that for all the bigots shouting things online, there are so many more people that are excited to have a space where they can express themselves, be themselves freely, see 2SLGBTQI+ entertainment and feel at home.”

Positivity and inclusion is what The Hayloft has always been about.

While weddings are only a small portion of The Hayloft’s business, the team is exploring ways to offer couples a more comprehensive experience in the future.

“We want to provide a fuller package,” says Mr. Paley. “If people are interested in flowers and catering, there can be some built-in options.”

When asked about those future plans, Paley laughs before offering a cautious reply.

“We’ll have to wait and see.”